Keeping in Mind Who the Wedding

There are so many people and factors that can make us lose sight of what the purpose and premise of a wedding is truly supposed to be about. Opinions, feelings, threats, people trying to vicariously live through you, people trying to impose their views on you. Over the years I have heard some shocking things, both personally and professionally. I remember being told, “This day is not about you.” There are few things in this life that I am adamant in my certainty of, but a wedding day being about the couple getting married is one of them. I have seen a non-religious parent pressure a non-religious child to have a religious ceremony to appease a religious parent, even though it was not in line with the beliefs of the couple getting married. I have seen mother’s pressure daughters into getting flowers they literally hate, because they are paying for them, and they are their personal favorite flowers. These are just a few examples, but you can see where this is going, and I could easily go on and on.


So, let’s start with what a wedding is. A wedding is simply a ceremony where two people unite in marriage. Customs and traditions vary greatly, and there is a great deal of personal preference as to what a couple incorporates into their ceremony and celebration. So, when it comes down to it, the wedding is about these two individuals, and these two individuals alone, making a commitment to each other, to unite in marriage. While most couples opt to share this happy moment with close family and friends, the ceremony and celebration are where things can start to slip out of the couple’s grasp, and cause a great deal of anxiety, conflict, unhappiness, and start to become a day that does not resemble what the couple imagined what it would be.


While it is true that many couples turn to their families to help them pay for the wedding, the families need to keep in mind that this is their children’s day, and that if their needs and wants are within budget, and within reason, they should let them have the day they had envisioned. This is about what makes them happy, not about reliving something you feel you missed out on, not about showing off to people in your life, and not about your personal taste. If the couple feels that there is too much interference, that their voices are not being heard, and that the day no longer resembles anything like what they had envisioned for themselves, they should seriously consider taking a step back and financing the wedding themselves. While this may change the scale and scope of wedding they can have, it may be well worth it to them in the end.


These days, with many couples waiting to get married at a later age, many are paying for the wedding themselves, which gives them complete control of decision making and tone for the day. You will also often see things go one of two ways. People will either go all out, thinking they are finally doing this and they are going to celebrate, or people being lower key, and keeping the genuine purpose of the commitment to one another in perspective.


The most important advice I give couples leading up to their weddings is this, do not let anyone else influence your feelings about the day or the commitment you are making to each other. The day is about the two of you, and nothing else, and no one else matters. Do not let anyone take away one second of happiness or joy from this experience that you have waited your whole life for. If someone is stressing you out, turn to your partner, ground each other, be each other’s touch stone, you are partner’s and that is what you are there for. This is one of your first tests to be there for each other, and it is supposed to be a day celebrating the joyous commitment you are making to one another, focus on that, and each other, and you will be off to an amazing start!Read more at:vintage wedding dresses | beach wedding dresses

カテゴリー: 未分類 | 投稿者bestlook 12:22 | コメントは受け付けていません。

Meet Beck Wadworth of An Organised Life

Beck Wadworth of An Organised Life, the newest member of Vogue’s Spy Style Network, touches on how she turned her innovative blog into an e-commerce site, with her fashionably functional products now stocked in over 70 stores worldwide.


In your own words explain your job and aesthetic.


“As the director of An Organised Life I personally design all the products for the brand and oversee the sales and PR. I also manage the day to day running of the business including social media, blog posts, eccommerce, online orders, photoshoots, marketing, production, shipping, accounting and everything in between! Every day is different. I have also been lucky enough to personally work with multiple brands through my social media including VogueAustralia, Veuve Cliquot Rich, Georgio Armani, M.A.C, Mecca Cosmetica and this has also become part of my day to day routine and work load. Aesthetic wise, my personal style and my creative style is very clean and minimalistic. From my wardrobe which is refined and all about classic silhouettes, to my apartment which is all monochrome with clean lines and a touch of greenery — everything in my life is streamlined with this vibe. I’m a bigger lover of less is more.”


What does an average day look like for you?


“Each day is different but usually it looks like this. 6.30am: Alarm and check emails news in bed. 7.00am: Smoothie and check over to-do list followed by a walk around Bondi. Then, emails and urgent jobs. From 9am: I do online orders for AOL ready for the courier to collect. 11.00am: Usually shooting either in the office for AOL or out on the streets for a client. 1pm: Anything and everything from accounting, client meetings, designing new products, production and supplier meetings or feedback, planning photo-shoots, editing imagery, changing web banners, writing blog posts, attending events, working on my social media, designing EDM’s, invoicing, marketing and PR plans and ideas etc.


The one bad thing about running your own business is it’s 24/7 and you’re always so passionate about growing your baby that the days fly by in a second! Before I know it, it’s 8.00pm!”


How would you describe your personal style?


“Chic and understated.”


What’s your favourite thing about your chosen profession?


“Being organised just makes life easier! I love being able to help fast paced, successful people manage their busy lives through my products and content.”


What’s the most challenging?


“Getting the workload done on my own!”


What’s the best career advice you’ve ever received and who was it from?


“Bec + Bridge [Becky Cooper and Bridget Yorston] are two successful woman I always look up to – they have amazing advice and I have always taken it on board. The most memorable has been: Never stand still, and always move forward. Know your strengths and weaknesses. Trust your instincts and learn from your mistakes.”


Where do you see yourself in five years?


“Hopefully with an established brand that is found and followed across the world.”


What advice do you have for someone who wants to follow your career path?


“Be as hands-on as possible for the first year. Be prepared to work hard, trust your gut always, be patient and do your research.”


What would you be doing if you weren’t doing this?


“I always loved the idea of working for a magazine! Maybe interiors or fashion — something creative.”


What’s the biggest misconception people have about your career?


“That it’s a walk in the park. But the reality is different. You have to work very hard!”Read more at:www.sheindressau.com | simple wedding dresses

カテゴリー: 未分類 | 投稿者bestlook 20:04 | コメントをどうぞ

Festive & feisty

Manpriya Singh

It’s gonna take a lot of sequins and shimmer if you are going to ‘outshine’ the bright and sparkly Diwali. Go a little off-tangent and a dark shade outfit could just be the much-needed contrast to an already well-lit night. Carry on with that line of thought and the shades of summer (sorbet and pastels) need not be reserved for only the first three quarters of the year. Then there are the florals reinvented, as festive as summery.

A few Diwali outfit ideas borrowed from the tinsel town — dazzling enough to match up to the brilliance of the season, but not quite enough to be mistaken for a wedding in the family; although Alia Bhatt’s sharara with chikankari embroidery and pink kurta is captioned ‘wedding bells’ on the Insta page! The outfit by Manish Malhotra can easily transition from a pre-wedding event to festive-wear.

How about palazzos with a twist?

Festival time is usually equated with an anarkali, a lehenga or a saree. But dressy outfits need not be reserved to fabric-heavy silhouettes. Take the right cues and ditch the ethnic-wear, the way Kareena did with an all embroidered ensemble. Dressed in an Anamika Khanna outfit, she graced an award night looking festive enough in shimmery gold floor length cape. “You have to ensure two connecting and core elements while dressing up for Diwali or any of the Indian festivals for that matter. Your outfit has to be dressy enough to spell cheer and it has to have at least one Indian element. If you are wearing a dressy jumpsuit, ensure that it has Indian embroidery or motifs,” city-based designer Malvika Punj, who runs the label Mul, talks of balancing the outfit. She adds, “Or if you are already wearing a lehenga that is very Indian, make sure it is not heavily worked upon and is quite contemporary; for instance an off shoulder blouse or a cropped blouse.”

What better way to spell tradition than an all-over outfit in Benarasi brocade and yet be able to do away with dupatta? Dia Mirza is not just ‘wedding ready’ as declared by her on a social media account in the handcrafted Benarasi, but also festival ready. The options are open, the ideas are endless!Read more at:short wedding dresses | www.sheindressau.com

カテゴリー: wedding | 投稿者bestlook 16:36 | コメントをどうぞ

Where The Nerve Of Young Designers Was Infectious

You’d think the schizophrenia of the London Fashion Weekschedule would make for a hot mess. But while we now go back and forth between emerging designers and super brands several times a day, I found this London season to be as feisty as ever. In fact, the presence of the establishment, some of whom were visiting from afar – Emporio Armani, Tommy Hilfiger and Versus – only served to highlight the infectious nerve of our young designers. In a Brexit world, the British fashion industry cemented a strong message of defiance this spring/summer 2018 season: at London Fashion Week there’s room for everyone. Fur protesters, too.

After a sequins-centric New York show run, on Saturday in London, Michael Halpern could finally claim the influence his way with sparkle has had on the season. Watching the turnout for his show held at the Palladium it’s incredible to think that the American designer is only on his second season. “Michael! There are sequins everywhere! This is all you!” I insisted after the show, which saw him develop his trademark sequins with new ideas of surface decoration – now on top of the sequins. “I think maybe other people are feeling the way I am?” a blushing Halpern answered bashfully.

What I loved about Saturday was that the excitement I felt at Halpern – that feeling of experiencing something new – was echoed at Burberry later that night. The way Christopher Bailey is rediscovering himself as a designer and phases in Burberry’s history once deemed taboo felt both authentic and emotional. Not least because he turned the volume up on the Pet Shop Boys’ Go West, which has new meaning in a Brexit world. Embracing the football community’s appropriation of the Burberry check, which took place some two decades ago, Bailey had many of us scrolling through his online store that evening, where the collection was already available to buy.

This was after we had made our way through the rather aggressive fur protest outside – even that felt rather kicky. The degree of verbal hostility (and reported spitting) towards fashion guests, however – even those not in furs – felt more like a demonstration against the fashion industry itself than its fur-using designers. The protesters re-emerged the next day at the Versus show, but Donatella Versace wasn’t in a furry mood. “What I think of young people today,” she said, “is they don’t feel a need to be over-dressed – just to play with their personalities.” When I spoke to 83-year-old Giorgio Armanibefore his show, he didn’t quite agree.

“Last night, I was having dinner at a very nice restaurant, Cipriani, but there was a group of women who came in, who were dressed impossibly,” Mr Armani said. What were they wearing? “Le tutto!” Everything. “And it didn’t really fit.” He argued that the fashion media encourages young people to overdress – and offered his Emporio Armani show that evening as an antidote. “I know what Mr Armani means because sometimes I see people – not necessarily in London, but everywhere – overdoing it. And I think less is more,” Tommy Hilfiger reflected when I put the question to him before his and Gigi Hadid’s show on Tuesday evening.

“Maybe there are people in London and all over the world, who dress like what they think they’re supposed to and what’s based on social media, and not necessarily what makes them happy,” Hadid observed. “I think Londoners dress for themselves, and I still see those people around London.” With her ghetto grunge collection for Hilfiger, she flew the nostalgic millennial flag that seems to hover over this season wherever we go, as exemplified in Burberry reclaiming its chequered past loved by the social media generation. Who are these elusive youngsters, and what do they want? Look at Hadid’s proposals and you might find the answer.

Or, head over to Molly Goddard, who opened her show with another millennial spokesgirl, Edie Campbell, who trotted down the catwalk with a drink and a cigarette in hand. Girly Goddard captures the free-spiritedness of her generation, and this season she framed it in more than supersized tulle skirts, making that all-important leap for a young London designer: moving it on. Her show reflected another source of excitement at London Fashion Week: the joy of seeing with our eyes the evolution of these new-generation designers we so support.

Justin Thornton and Thea Bregazzi of Preen are the original example of the London success story, which a designer like Simone Rocha – with her young but highly lucrative business – now embodies. This season they all proved that authenticity and a beating heart gets you further in fashion than the industry’s reputation might suggest. Preen offered a poignantly political collection inspired by The Scarlet Letter and The Handmaid’s Tale, campaigning for a less suppressive world for their two young daughters to grow up in.

“We’re living in an anarchy time when people have lost faith in leaders and society,” Thornton told me. “We want women to deconstruct their own femininity and reconstruct it so they can be whatever they want.” Simone Rocha was doing it for the kids, too, in a collection based on the china dolls she grew up playing with, now inherited by her toddler daughter. And the play for childlike innocence didn’t stop there – Mary Katrantzou presented an entire collection adopting kids’ crafts in couture techniques. “That nostalgia is kind of your building block for where you are today,” she said.

No shows imprinted themselves more in my mind this weekend, however, than Richard Quinn and Erdem. Here, it was the subtext that did the talking. Quinn was given his first-ever show by Liberty, who made their heritage prints available to him for the exertion of his severely subversive approach to florals, gimp suits in tow. It was a proper London show: early and intimate and underground – a little fetish in the morning, with prominent attendance, too.

Erdem is used to the royal treatment, and this season he turned it around in one of his best collections ever (big words for this original fan), which imagined a swap of roles between Queen Elizabeth and Dorothy Dandridge in the Fifties. How could he get the sexual tension between the two poles so right? This was Erdem flexing his sub-textual muscle at its strongest, fusing the dainty glamour of the royal wardrobe with the seductive lure of Harlem’s jazz clubs. It was intensely beautiful. “We live in such weird times and I think this exchange between two different worlds felt really beautiful,” he said after the show, summing up his collection and the entire London Fashion Week in one sweeping sentiment.Read more at:http://www.sheindressau.com/backless-wedding-dresses-au | http://www.sheindressau.com/wedding-dresses-perth

カテゴリー: wedding | 投稿者bestlook 16:25 | コメントをどうぞ

Rooney Mara on Her Challenging New Role—And Why She Doesn’t Care What Other People Think

“I have a backpack and a small carry-on for two weeks,” Rooney Mara tells me one afternoon, after collapsing into a stiff chair at a café on the eastern flank of Manhattan’s Chinatown. She has recently arrived in New York on a red-eye out of California. In a few hours she will leave again, to travel on to Europe. During the precious time in between, there is a restless version of a New York life to live. Mara has just emerged from a dusty storage unit where her whole apartment is being held on ice. (She vacated one place in February and hasn’t yet found a new home to her taste.) This afternoon she’ll visit friends, run errands, traverse Manhattan by foot; later in the year, she plans to leave the country once again, to see the gorillas in Rwanda. (“Who knows how much longer they’ll be there?”) All of this follows an astonishing two-year period during which Mara left behind the Hollywood movies that made her name—The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Carol—to focus on a run of daring, demanding indie roles, each different from the last. After years building her reputation, Rooney Mara is on the move.

“I hate having a lot of baggage. Traveling when you have nothing—no options—is the best,” she says. She is wearing a careworn vintage T-shirt (the Smiths), pants from Forever 21, and a Yigal Azrouël jacket made bespoke for her, using no animal skin. For ethical reasons, she has embarked on what she describes as the long, hard process of phasing leather out of her wardrobe. (The big challenge, she says, is the shoes.) She has her hair cut short and blends in among the café’s shiftless-chic clientele. “Don’t tell anyone where we are—no one comes here!” she says. Then, with a sly grin, “Just say we’re in Brooklyn.”

A waitress comes by, and Mara places a brisk order: “A half and half.” She catches herself. “Not the creamer,” she says. That’s half iced tea, half lemonade. She gives the tight, amused smile for which she’s known: sweet, self-aware, a little furtive, the hint of her dimples around the edges. She’s been a vegetarian most of her life, and for the past six years, also for ethical reasons, a vegan. Even in New York, the state where she grew up, there’s something otherworldly about Mara, as if she arrived from somewhere else and must translate the universe that she inhabits—the goals, the foods, the customs—into language all the rest of us can understand.

At the moment, though, her attention is all ease and warmth; this summer, Mara is at last enjoying a break after two years of intense, emotionally draining work. A few years ago, explains Mara, who’s now 32, the contours of her creative ambition changed, and since then she has tried to make the films, and live the life, she personally cares about most. “I have more trust now in the universe and things happening when they’re supposed to,” she says. “What I try to live by now is: It doesn’t matter what other people think. I try to live for myself.” In some ways, it’s her most demanding standard yet. “I have to get good at myself, which is a challenge,” she says. “I’m the meanest critic there is.”

And so if 2011, when Mara starred in The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, was her year of going wide, 2017 could be her year of going deep. First she played a young widow in David Lowery’s A Ghost Story, opposite Casey Affleck—an unusual role, in an even more brilliantly unusual film, and one she shot in only six days. Then, this fall, Mara stars in Una, Benedict Andrews’s daring movie about a suburban Lolita grown up. Mara fell in love with Blackbird, the David Harrower play on which it’s based, after seeing it on the New York stage in 2007. (“I was so affected by it,” she says. “Thinking about it, reading it.”) She confessed her nagging passion for the play to Cate Blanchett, while they were making Carol, and the universe smiled. “She’s like, ‘Oh, my God, my friend Benedict is doing it, and he’s desperate to have you!’ ” Mara recalls.

In the film adaptation, Mara plays Una, a woman in her 20s trying to reenter the life of an older man (Ben Mendelsohn) who sexually abused her when she was thirteen. He seems to want nothing to do with the adult Una, and they circle each other, sparring. The film was shot quickly, in five weeks, but its heightened emotional drama required close preparation with Mendelsohn—and a distinctive mix of vulnerability and strength. “That relationship was so important because it was really intense and it was mostly just the two of us,” she tells me. “We didn’t spend a lot of time bashing over stuff. We sort of felt for each other more than anything,” Mendelsohn says. He touts Mara’s craft. “I mean, blushing on-screen? That is a kind of holy grail.”

It’s unsurprising, then, that Mara’s Una—a questing girl who has grown into a haunted adult—shapes the film’s emotional core. “She possesses a fierce intelligence that is absolutely readable and clear on-screen, and, at the same time, she also has a beguiling sense of beauty and mystery that I thought was going to be very important,” Andrews explains. “One of the reasons for the shift in title from Blackbird to Una is that we’re drawn into questions that she is desperately seeking answers to. Was this love or was this abuse? Was I the only one?” He goes on, “Rooney’s completely unafraid to go into the raw nerves, the damaged places in characters.”

In the café, Mara takes a sip of her drink and offers her famously inscrutable smile. (“There’s an enormous amount you can’t know about Rooney, and that is a really powerful characteristic,” Mendelsohn says.) Many directors view her as something of a cipher, showing up to work with an almost magical mastery of the material. David Lowery recalls her appearing on the first day of filming for his first film with her, Ain’t Them Bodies Saints. “She came to set with a character who was fully defined and was entirely hers,” he says. “She would not share with me the accent she was preparing until the first take.” Gus Van Sant, who recently directed Mara for the first time, describes her as “very self-contained.” He says, “She doesn’t need a lot from me.”

That opaque self-sufficiency has costs: A few years back, when she was chasing down a part she dearly wanted, she was brushed off. “The producers were like, ‘You’re just too Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. You’re not wide-eyed and innocent enough,’ ” she recalls. “It was right after I had shot Carol, but it hadn’t come out yet. I’m literally wide-eyed in that.”

She smiles wryly; she has come to take such disappointments in stride. “I’m sure at some point it will be the reverse: ‘You’re not edgy enough,’ ” she says. She chuckles. “It only makes me bolder. It only makes me want to be like, Fuck you! Watch me be wide-eyed and innocent!”

A 37,000-foot view of Mara’s childhood reveals how little of it seems to carry forward into her adult self. There’s the famous football dynasty: Her father’s family founded the New York Giants, and her mother’s, the Rooneys, founded the Pittsburgh Steelers. Nothing could seem more distant from Mara’s narrow-shouldered hipster frame. There’s her early-teenage passion for horror films, a genre that she says she now loathes. And, of course, there’s what she describes as her shy, distrustful demeanor as a child, so unlike that of her older sister, Kate, also an actress. “She has a better personality than I do,” Rooney says, deadpan. “People like her more.” When they were growing up, Kate and their cousins would put on dance shows around the house, but Rooney (then called Tricia) was so timorous that she could never do anything except press stop and play on their cassette player.

“Kate knew definitively that she wanted to be on Broadway and do music and acting by age ten,” Rooney explains. “Maybe because I was a contrarian, I wanted to go to school and not be a child actor.” Her essential taste in films has never changed—“dark, cerebral, deeply romantic, goth, weird”—but at eighteen and nineteen she tried out for everything. “Auditioning is like going on a job interview. You have to wear a certain outfit and behave a certain way and play the game a little bit, and I’m just not good at that. I’m really not,” she says. She hates small talk. “I either want no conversation or ‘Let’s talk about your failing marriage,’ ” she says.

The roles came slowly at first; it wasn’t until David Fincher cast her as the lead in The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, after working with her in The Social Network, that she got her break. And yet, where many actresses would use such a role as an entrée into Hollywood, Mara has taken a different path. Following The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, she’s made relatively few big studio films, building out her reputation instead in emotionally demanding indie proj­ects. There was her performance as a Texan outlaw turned young mother in Ain’t Them Bodies Saints, and as an aid worker in Rio de Janeiro in Stephen Daldry’s Trash. Mara makes a point of avoiding the “girlfriend or wife” roles that young actresses are often slotted into, but she’s been known to take interesting iterations: as a murderous sleepwalker in Side Effects, as the ex of a man in love with his operating system in Her, and, of course, as the department-store waif who falls in love with an older woman in Carol. Earlier this year, she starred with Robert Redford in the philosophical sci-fi thriller The Discovery, made by her own former boyfriend of several years, Charlie McDowell.

All of this is a fittingly broad range for a woman who prefers to move through the world less like a movie star than like a student on a gap year, hopping planes and living out of carry-ons. A few years ago, while shooting Trash in Brazil, she insisted on exploring the local favelas alone. It wasn’t her first time in a struggling foreign quarter: After spending a college summer in a volunteer program in Nairobi’s Kibera slum, one of the largest in the world, Mara founded a charity to administer care and services to children there. She has a lengthy bucket list of places she hopes to visit—India, Nepal, Bhutan, parts of South America—but returns to Africa from time to time, both to check in with kids in her charity and to take in what she hasn’t seen before.

What’s she chasing? A certain kind of immersive experience that carries into acting, too, she says: “I need to really be feeling like this is the truth of what’s really happening.” David Lowery was surprised, as a relatively unknown indie filmmaker, to get a cold call saying Rooney Mara might be interested in Ain’t Them Bodies Saints. “My first thought was, This actress is at the top of the world right now, and there’s no way she’d want to do a tiny film in Texas,” he says. She did, though, and turned up not just ready but alert. “She is so intelligent, so sharp, that you can see the wheels turning in her head—it’s almost as if you can feel her judging your direction as you give it to her,” he says with a laugh.

I have the idea that, after the twelve-hour window in New York and her ten-day European vacation, but before the trip to see the gorillas in Rwanda and the start of her next film, I will finally be able to see Mara in the rarest of conditions: a state of rest. She insists that when she’s not insanely busy, she is insanely indolent. (“I like to spend a lot of time in bed. If I could take all my meetings and calls there, I would love that.”) I meet her one bright afternoon at the Trails Cafe, an outdoor coffee-and-snacks spot near the foot of the trailheads in Griffith Park.

One of the first things she tells me, though, is that she’s selling her Los Angeles house—another move in process. Also, adding to the chaos of the day, the house is full of moths. She returned from Europe to find part of her home full of pantry pests: those tiny yet alarmingly fast-breeding creatures that haunt cupboards. It doesn’t seem to have occurred to her to call an exterminator. Instead—as usual—she is trying to solve the issue herself, by swatting. “I’m so ashamed. I feel horrible,” she says.

Still, the sunshine is enlivening, and Mara—albeit lathered in sunscreen to preserve her sensitive skin—seems pleased to be out. Although she loves the pedestrian ease of New York, she prefers the quality of life in Los Angeles, where she takes the outdoors seriously: On arriving, even before saying hello, she reflexively stoops to pick a plastic cup littering the ground, and ferries it to a trash can nearby. On the red carpet, she is known for her romantic-goth taste, wearing almost exclusively black or creamy white. (Who could forget the intricate lace Givenchy dress she wore to the 2016 Oscars, or the slick, black Louis Vuitton ensemble she donned for the Una Canadian premiere—part Blade Runner, part ballerina?) Today, though, she’s back in crunchy-traveler mode: a favorite black T-shirt, matching Eckhaus Latta jeans, black Converse sneakers, and a vintage-style broad-brimmed hat.

I order an iced mint tea. Mara asks for the same and, after rummaging in her knapsack, produces a Mason jar. “Can you put it in here?” she asks the cashier. She’s trying to spare the Earth another disposable cup. We settle at a picnic table, underneath a lovely parched oak.

Mara assures me that in L.A. she is a homebody. In New York, she often goes out for dinner with friends, most of whom she’s known since childhood. But in California her friends are from work, and she claims she leaves her house only to go grocery shopping (“I’m a winter cook—banana muffins or soup”) and to exercise (“important for me mentally”). Here in California, she works out with her friend Andie Hecker, a former ballerina. In New York, she goes to Katonah yoga with Danielle Rosati. In both places, she drops in on The Class, a calisthenic regimen by Taryn Toomey. She recently started karate.

It is dipping into afternoon, and the Southern California light has taken on a buttery blur. This evening, Mara says, she plans to buy a ticket at her local theater and see A Ghost Story for the first time. She much prefers slipping into the back of a dark theater than parading into a premiere, but it’s the rare film that allows such freedom. In the end, she quails; she hasn’t yet watched A Ghost Story as of late summer. Mara says she never looks forward to seeing herself on-screen. “For me it’s all about the experience of making a movie,” she explains.

The coming months will bring two films that reflect the range of that experience. In Van Sant’s new biopic about the late quadriplegic cartoonist John Callahan, Don’t Worry, He Won’t Get Far on Foot, Mara plays Callahan’s Swedish-American caretaker. And she spent much of last autumn in Italy, shooting what may be her most daring part to date: the title role of Mary Magdalene, directed by Garth Davis, with whom she first worked in last year’s Lion.

Mara was brought up Catholic, and, although she still considers herself broadly spiritual, she has moved away from the faith. At first, she says, the prospect of playing Mary Magdalene struck her as absurd. “I’m like, ‘I can’t do a scene with Jesus. I just can’t!’ ” Yet she was heartened to learn that Joaquin Phoenix would be playing Christ; they are reported to be dating. (Although Mara is coy on details—“I cannot confirm or deny!”—she reports that all is going well. Or, in fact, better: “My love life is great,” she corrects.) Along the way, Mara developed a special creative relationship with Davis, the director: He is also the favorite to direct the first film she has been developing herself. Based on the best-selling memoir A House in the Sky, about Amanda Lindhout’s time as a young journalist held hostage by militants in Somalia, the movie is one Mara has been working toward for most of her adult career. After four years of work with Megan Ellison’s Annapurna Pictures, Mara hopes the film will be made in 2018.

Will A House in the Sky be enough to bring Mara in for a landing at last? “We’ve all been working really hard to get it made, but we want to do it right,” she says. “Hopefully it all works out.” She jingles her jar of iced tea in the sun and takes a sip. She smiles. “But you never know.”Read more at:wedding dresses australia | bridesmaid dresses online

カテゴリー: wedding | 投稿者bestlook 18:47 | コメントをどうぞ

Suzy Menkes at New York Fashion Week

In the Calvin Klein store on Madison Avenue, the company’s fresh design image swings from the rafters. There are twisted ribbons, mannequin dummies and all the colour and artistic imagination the fashion world now expects from the collaboration between Calvin’s Belgian designer Raf Simons and the American artist Sterling Ruby.

The clothes on sale are modern, streamlined and appealing; luring in from the street outside those in search of sleek tailored coats, impeccably cut trousers, wispy chiffon blouses and references to vintage patchwork quilts from rural America’s past.

Above all, the collection seems appealing, even joyous: a colourful new dawn for a designer who founded his company in 1968 as ‘Calvin Clean’.

How chic to see that early minimalism transformed by Simons into an ode to America today.

But these clothes are the fruits of a show held six months ago for the winter season. The spring/summer 2018 presentation this week was familiar. There was the same rendezvous in the Calvin Klein New York headquarters; same concept of decoration with ribbons – mostly blood red or sunshine orange, put up as overhead decoration. And an even more impressive line-up of famous faces, on the performing arts side from Lupita Nyong’o and Kate Bosworth to Jake Gyllenhaal.

But what’s this? Over my head is hanging, like the sword of Damocles, an axe swinging from red distressed cheerleader pompom fabric. The merry exuberance of Sterling Ruby seemed to be turning into a horror movie.

“For me, it’s about speaking about America – and Calvin Klein’s America,” said Simons backstage. “I think of it as a mighty trilogy, with something that is needed to bring the whole company together. For me, it’s about speaking about America – Calvin Klein’s America.

The show notes were far more specific. “An abstraction of horrors and dreams,” read the introduction under the ironic headline ‘Sweet dreams’. The show, it explained, “takes its inspiration from cinema, from the dream factory of Hollywood and its depictions of both an American nightmare and the all-powerful American dream.”

“The ‘clues’ of horror, but also of dreams, inspire the collection,” the story behind the fashion show continued. It was played out on the runway in innocent, mid-century silhouettes given a dark tinge with the use of nylon and rubber. Andy Warhol, who defined the culture of 15 minutes of fame, was also part of the equation, which tipped towards suggestive images of shattered innocence.

The movies quoted as inspiration to Raf Simons and his right hand Pieter Mulier included Knives (1981-82), Electric Chair (1964-65) and Ambulance Disaster (1963-64) – all chosen from Warhol’s Death and Disaster series. The uncomfortable irony was that references might appear on a floaty nightdress as a symbol of young female innocence, or played out in the cowboy boots that the designer had introduced in his debut season. One ongoing reference was to Amish quilts; another to wild west-style fringing that hung and swung from and across the body. These skinny streams were even made into bags as well as creating layers of silken fringes on the body.

Another statement came with rubber used as cloth, helping to create the unsettling vibe of the show.

But what did it all mean in terms of clothing? I could see references to the Raf Simons heredity in voluminous skirts that he had presented as a silhouette in his time as designer for Dior. A series of rain coats for both sexes showed the designer’s faultless cutting and captured a hint of the clean, clear lines from the original Calvin Klein collections. But strong colours – green, blood red, golden yellow or sky blue ­– mostly had splodgy black markings to enhance a sense of discomfort.

The American Dream has always been particular to the United States, the idea of an achievable goal that no other country feels so deeply. But whatever political trauma the big country is going through currently, it seemed awkward to translate it into clothes, especially by a designer who comes from outside the continent.

Edited through and placed in the Calvin Klein Madison store, this collection will look like what it is: cleverly cast garments with an intriguing artistic feel. But like horror movies, there is an underlying feeling of discomfort that left a question mark on the show itself.Read more at:wedding dresses australia | simple wedding dresses

カテゴリー: beauty | 投稿者bestlook 18:11 | コメントをどうぞ

The Duchess of Cambridge pays sartorial tribute to Princess Diana

This year, Princes William and Harry have been marking 20 years since their mother’s death with a series of documentaries and interviews paying tribute to her achievements. Today- on the eve of the anniversary itself- the Princes were joined by the Duchess of Cambridge to meet representatives from the charities which Princess Diana supported over the years at the garden which has been created in her honour in the grounds of Kensington Palace.

The Duchess of Cambridge never met Diana of course, but she paid sartorial tribute to her this afternoon with a perfectly pitched choice of outfit which combined symbols of remembrance with detailling which nodded to one of the style signatures which the Princess made famous as a style icon during the Eighties.

In her first public appearence since taking a break over the summer, Kate wore a £1,425 silk dress by Prada with a poppy floral pattern and a pussy bow tie at the neckline, looking elegant despite the rain in London this afternoon.

Poppies are a familiar motif, most famously used to remember fallen soldiers but they have a wider significance of healing and memory for loved ones who have died. Although they came with a somber meaning, the pattern on the Duchess’s dress was cheerfully bright, reflecting the eye-catching prints which Diana herself used to love to wear, especially when visiting hospitals, children and charities.

Along with pie crust collars and ruffles, pussy bows were a romantic flounce which Princess Diana made her own early in her marriage. On the day that her engagement to Prince Charles was announced, she wore a blue and white speckled pussy bow blouse which she had bought in Harrods and was photographed wearing pale pink chiffon blouse by the Emanuels in Vogue soon afterwarsds; in fact, she loved that blouse so much that it led to her asking the couple to design her wedding dress. Later, Diana would often layer a white shirt with the pretty tie detail underneath tailored jackets and coats for public walkabouts and visits.

Given the sheer breadth of outfits and trends which Diana played with during her years in the spotlight, it is perhaps little surprise that the Duchess of Cambridge has appeared to pay tribute to some of her late mother-in-law’s iconic looks during her own time as a senior member of the royal family. Last year, she wore a pie crust collar dress to a children’s tea party in Canada while the polka dot blue dress by Jenny Packham which she chose to leave the Lindo Wing after giving birth to Prince George drew immediate comparisons to a similar style by Catherine Walker which Diana wore after having William.

Perhaps the most famous Diana-related item in the Duchess’s repertoire is her sapphire and diamond engagement ring which William gave to Kate so that she would be part of his marriage and adult life. But she has also worn one of Diana’s pearl-studded Lover’s Knot tiara on several occasions and at a cocktail party in Germany last month, a pearl bracelet belonging to Diana was seen on Kate’s wrist.

bridesmaid dresses australia | SheinDressAU

カテゴリー: style | 投稿者bestlook 15:27 | コメントをどうぞ

Maria Sharapova Holds Court in Crystal-Embellished Black Dress

Maria Sharapova Holds Court in Crystal-Embellished Black Dress at U.S. Open — See Her Best Tennis Outfits

Five-time Grand Slam champion Maria Sharapova recently returned to tennis after a 15-month hiatus. Known for her accomplishments on the court, the Russian athlete also has a noteworthy sense of fashion that enhances her game.

She wore a black dress designed by Nike and Riccardo Tisci during her first match at the 2017 U.S. Open on Monday morning. With lace cutouts and Swarovski crystal embellishments, this dress added a glamorous touch to her win. Reflecting on the look, Sharapova wrote on Instagram,“What an amazing experience getting to work with icon Riccardo Tisci and Nike on this year’s U.S. Open dress. Just remembering sitting around my dining table talking inspiration and all things lace with Riccardo and now … it’s come to life!”

In an all-pink, all-Nike look, Sharapova won her first round at the Bank of the West Classic WTA Premier in Stanford, Calif. Her pleated skirt added a sartorial touch to a strong game. She wore pink Nike sneakers to finish the ensemble.

At the Australian Open in 2016, Sharapova defeated Serena Williams while wearing an orange Nike dress. She matched the racerback dress with orange-accented white Nike sneakers.

Again playing against Williams, Sharapova wore all-white Nike to the 2015 Wimbledon Tennis Championships. Though she didn’t win the match, Sharapova’s tennis dress was a win in itself. Its flowy skirt, white lace finish and racerback top added to its stunning appeal. She finished the look with simple white Nike sneakers.

While playing at the Australian Open in 2015, Sharapova sported a fiery red look by Nike. The understated dress had a small cutout at the small of the back and a linear racerback top. She wore white Nike sneakers with pink accents.

At the 2015 Nike Street Tennis Event, Sharapova stepped out in a black-and-white outfit. All by Nike, the sneakers showcased pink accents, black laces and a black Nike swoosh over a white base. Sharapova’s white dress featured black accents at the waist, chest and hem.

Yellow Bridesmaid Dresses | White Bridesmaid Dresses

カテゴリー: style | 投稿者bestlook 15:53 | コメントをどうぞ

Jared Leto In Technicolor Dreamcoat

Jared Leto In Technicolor Dreamcoat at the VMAs

As expected, Jared Leto delivered some sartorial flair on the VMAs red carpet.

It was hard to miss the Thirty Seconds to Mars frontman, who arrived in a dramatic green and blue sequined Gucci cape with a pink floral turtleneck and black pants. Perhaps to protect himself from his outerwear’s blinding shine, he wore a pair of Carrera aviators on the step and repeat.

Leto stepped out with bandmates brother Shannon Leto (in Gucci, not uh, Forever 21) and Tomo Milicevic.

Thirty Seconds to Mars is scheduled to hit the stage during the music awards ceremony, where they’ll be performing their new single, “Walk on Water.”

Leto will appear on the silver screen soon, starring in Blade Runner 2049, opposite Ryan Gosling and Harrison Ford.

cheap bridesmaid dresses | sheindressau.com

カテゴリー: style | 投稿者bestlook 15:07 | コメントをどうぞ

Coachella vs Burning Man fashion smackdown

Our sister paper, the Reno Gazette-Journal, has thrown down the style gauntlet.

They put together a fun photo gallery of “weird and wonderful” fashions from two iconic festivals – Burning Man and the Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival – and asked the question “Who wore it better?”

They say “Burning Man, duh.” We say “Coachellafest, bruh.”

Both festivals are known for their eccentric festivalgoers who often push the limits of fashion, but that’s where their similarities often end.

For once, I admit, I’m a bit biased towards Coachella. So you be the judge and let us know which fashions you prefer.

Burning Man, which runs Sunday through Sept. 4 in Black Rock City, is a temporary metropolis built in the middle of the desert with a focus on art and self-expression and includes interactive sculptures. Fashion there is reminiscent of “Mad Max” – apocalyptic and protective with a touch of whimsy, of course.

The Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival, held over two weekends in April in Indio, is three days of music from some of the most popular musicians and EDM artists in the industry. There are various stages with lots of art, food, camping and self-expression as well. Fashion here is a pastime for many, including the slew of celebrities who use the internationally renowned festival as a runway. The aesthetic is concert chic, heavy on eccentric with a mix of whatever the latest trend is – fringe, crochet, rompers, flash-tattoos. Yes, it can be a bit on the funky side, but it’s much more fashion-forward and wearable than Burning Man.

purple bridesmaid dresses | bridesmaid dresses sydney

カテゴリー: style | 投稿者bestlook 11:51 | コメントをどうぞ